If It Looks Good, Is It?

Current mood:  confused

Category: Romance and Relationships

This primarily is to the guys. If it looks good, is it really good? I’ve had the dubious fortune of meeting some incredibly different guys (foreign, self-employed, non-9-5ers, etc.). They were attracted to me because of my looks (on the photographed days). However, I always felt like a little prize or better yet a “man-doll”. We had relationships that ranged between none and uh, none. They were rather content to take me out and spend money but the things that make a relationship were elusive at best. I have a lot churning in my head but rarely did I have anyone attempt to engage me on that level. I felt like a cardboard cut-out of myself.

My question to you today is this – if it’s good how do you ascertain the fact?

One really bad thing about this is that if I had insisted on this chain of events upfront and in the beginning, then I’m a Gold-Digger (though it’s true I’ve not been involved with many broke people)…