{"id":224,"date":"2006-01-02T15:10:00","date_gmt":"2006-01-02T21:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.petitefreespirit.com\/2006\/01\/if-it-looks-good-is-it\/"},"modified":"2020-06-10T19:47:22","modified_gmt":"2020-06-11T00:47:22","slug":"if-it-looks-good-is-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/2006\/01\/02\/if-it-looks-good-is-it\/","title":{"rendered":"If It Looks Good, Is It?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<strong>Current mood:<\/strong><span>&nbsp; <\/span>confused <\/p>\n<p>Category: Romance and Relationships <\/p>\n<p>This primarily is to the guys. If it looks good, is it really good? I&#8217;ve had the dubious fortune of meeting some incredibly different guys (foreign, self-employed, non-9-5ers, etc.). They were attracted to me because of my looks (on the photographed days). However, I always felt like a little prize or better yet a &#8220;man-doll&#8221;. We had relationships that ranged between none and uh, none. They were rather content to take me out and spend money but the things that make a relationship were elusive at best. I have a lot churning in my head but rarely did I have anyone attempt to engage me on that level. I felt like a cardboard cut-out of myself.<\/p>\n<p>My question to you today is this &#8211; if it&#8217;s good how do you ascertain the fact?<\/p>\n<p>One really bad thing about this is that if I had insisted on this chain of events upfront and in the beginning, then I&#8217;m a Gold-Digger (though it&#8217;s true I&#8217;ve not been involved with many broke people)&#8230;<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Current mood:&nbsp; confused Category: Romance and Relationships This primarily is to the guys. If it looks good, is it really good? I&#8217;ve had the dubious fortune of meeting some incredibly different guys (foreign, self-employed, non-9-5ers, etc.). They were attracted to me because of my looks (on the photographed days). However, I always felt like a &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/2006\/01\/02\/if-it-looks-good-is-it\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">If It Looks Good, Is It?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-224","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-myspace-archive"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false,"post-thumbnail":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"pfspirit","author_link":"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/author\/pfspirit\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Current mood:&nbsp; confused Category: Romance and Relationships This primarily is to the guys. If it looks good, is it really good? I&#8217;ve had the dubious fortune of meeting some incredibly different guys (foreign, self-employed, non-9-5ers, etc.). They were attracted to me because of my looks (on the photographed days). However, I always felt like a&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/224","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=224"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/224\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":830,"href":"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/224\/revisions\/830"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=224"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=224"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=224"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}