{"id":143,"date":"2008-02-23T02:29:00","date_gmt":"2008-02-23T08:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.petitefreespirit.com\/2008\/02\/an-end-to-yet-another-period-of-unemployment\/"},"modified":"2020-06-10T19:47:11","modified_gmt":"2020-06-11T00:47:11","slug":"an-end-to-yet-another-period-of-unemployment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/2008\/02\/23\/an-end-to-yet-another-period-of-unemployment\/","title":{"rendered":"An End To Yet Another Period Of Unemployment"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><P align=justify><FONT style=\"FONT-SIZE: 14px\" face=arial><FONT style=\"FONT-SIZE: 85%\"><\/FONT><FONT style=\"FONT-SIZE: 85%\"><\/FONT><FONT style=\"FONT-SIZE: 85%\"><\/FONT>I&#8217;ve been in Saint Louis for a little over two years and have found myself unemployed twice &#8211; the first time, unwillingly due to a layoff; the second time, willingly due to a bad fit. I took a huge chance by leaving my last job and I&#8217;ve gone through some tough times since I made that decision. Initially, I was ecstatic to have taken a stand for my own peace of mind but the cost of that stand almost also destroyed my piece of mind. Just when I was starting to doubt myself and the decision, a wonderful opportunity came along. In many ways, it is exactly what I need for where I am now.<\/p>\n<p> <P align=justify><FONT style=\"FONT-SIZE: 14px\" face=arial><FONT style=\"FONT-SIZE: 85%\"><\/FONT><FONT style=\"FONT-SIZE: 85%\"><\/FONT><FONT style=\"FONT-SIZE: 85%\"><\/FONT>During this job search, I&#8217;ve gone on interviews where I felt as if we both were thinking &#8220;who the hell is this?!&#8221; I even went on two separate interviews where the interviewers asked me pointedly personal questions about how I felt about the bad times that I&#8217;ve had since I&#8217;ve been in Saint Louis. I have done and continue to do a lot of soul-searching about the chain of events that have occurred since I&#8217;ve been here, however, I don&#8217;t think I want any job so bad that I&#8217;m willing to bare my soul in order to be considered for it. Just as asking a person&#8217;s age or if they have children during an interview is considered to be inappropriate, so too is asking a personal question of that magnitude. Don&#8217;t get me wrong, if asked out of concern, I will answer a personal question. However, neither of these instances were examples of people asking out of sheer concern. I once was accused of maybe having too much pride but I don&#8217;t think it is too much pride but a certain level of dignity I prefer to maintain.<\/p>\n<p> <P align=justify><FONT style=\"FONT-SIZE: 14px\" face=arial><FONT style=\"FONT-SIZE: 85%\"><\/FONT><FONT style=\"FONT-SIZE: 85%\"><\/FONT><FONT style=\"FONT-SIZE: 85%\"><\/FONT>However, those incidents are in the past and I have a wonderful future to look forward to at my upcoming job. For just a moment I needed to vent, now I&#8217;m going to keep it moving. <\/p>\n<p><font style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/font><font style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/font><font style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/font><font style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/font><font style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/font><font style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/font><font style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/font><font style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><\/font><font style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><\/p>\n<p style=\"\" align=\"justify\">\n<p><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been in Saint Louis for a little over two years and have found myself unemployed twice &#8211; the first time, unwillingly due to a layoff; the second time, willingly due to a bad fit. I took a huge chance by leaving my last job and I&#8217;ve gone through some tough times since I made &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/2008\/02\/23\/an-end-to-yet-another-period-of-unemployment\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">An End To Yet Another Period Of Unemployment<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-143","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-myspace-archive"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false,"post-thumbnail":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"pfspirit","author_link":"https:\/\/www.petitefreespirit.com\/index.php\/author\/pfspirit\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"I&#8217;ve been in Saint Louis for a little over two years and have found myself unemployed twice &#8211; the first time, unwillingly due to a layoff; the second time, willingly due to a bad fit. 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